I was addicted to control, trying to control my partner and even myself! Forcing, pushing myself to be more perfect, more pleasing. It felt exhausting and really harmed my health and wellbeing. 

I felt drawn to Joy's life experience in other areas of self-development as well as her story. She looked so radiant and filled up.  To me she is the queen of Self Care, deep surrender to life and going with the flow.  I felt very drawn to that radiance and ability to stay peaceful and strong even through difficult times.  Her story felt very inspiring to me. I wanted stability, radiance and strength for myself.  

I felt extremely safe with Joy.  I could be completely authentic and always felt understood.  I always came out inspired by the end of the session.  Her feminine way of approaching things was truly inspiring.  Less pushing and more being, after which inspiration would flow.  She really helped me to put faith over fear, trust life and start expecting the best.

Joy gave me permission to really take care of myself in a way I never had. She was such a role model for self-care and self-love.  This has been so important in my being able to show up as my best self in my relationship.  And it has also helped me so much in creating healthy boundaries around work and study. My health has improved greatly! 

Private Coaching has changed my life!  I can truly say that I have learned to love and care for myself within a relationship and through the pressures of life. I’ve stopped trying to control everything and live much more in the moment, focusing on what I can do right now for myself. 

 Alexandra, UK

Before I started receiving coaching with Joy, I was completely hopeless about my marriage. My husband and I triggered each other so deeply and had terrible fights. I felt like my needs were not being met and that our problems were all his fault.  Even though I thought divorce may be the only answer, I finally decided to commit to my marriage and get coaching because I really didn’t want a divorce.

I felt comfortable sharing my struggles with Joy because she created so much safety and provided such deep listening and empathy. She could relate to my struggles and made me feel hopeful that things would get better. She had so much wisdom to share around how she transformed her own life with these skills. Her radical self-care and respect for her husband, and her joyful fun spirit inspired me to become the best version of myself. I left every session empowered and confident.

I gained clarity around how I was contributing to the breakdown in my marriage and the hope that I could make a positive impact by practicing the intimacy skills I was learning.  It was hard at first, but I learned how to restore respect, to see my husband through eyes of gratitude, and to create emotional safety in our home. I began a journey into deep self-care after years of self-neglect. My husband started reacting to me differently as I learned to deeply listen to him, express my gratitude, and receive all that he wanted to give. My new perspective let me see all the ways he wanted to show up as my hero. My marriage is becoming everything I’ve always wanted…peaceful, playful, supportive and full of love and gratitude.

I recommend intimacy skills training to every woman who is stuck in an unfulfilling or hopeless marriage. I know now that there is always hope when we learn these skills and begin implementing them…and coaching is what made the biggest difference for me. My whole life has changed, and I am so grateful to Joy for her huge contribution to my life!

Lisa G., 48, USA, married 10 years

I was separated from my husband and struggling with life. Not knowing how to get out of the turmoil, it took a toll on my well-being and confidence.

I knew that I needed some additional support because although I was using the skills, I could not see my blind spots.  With Joy’s coaching, I could offload without judgement because I knew that Joy was standing for my marriage.  She listened to my problems and held a safe place with the empathy that I needed to get through some of the hardest days of my life.

Today, the relationship with my husband is on an even keel, and the relationship I have with my 2 adult daughters is amazing.  I feel so empowered and confident.  Joy taught me why self-love is so important.  I would definitely recommend private coaching. I believe it’s the best self-improvement project I have ever done.

I would love to thank you for all that you have done for me Joy it has been an absolute pleasure.

 Heidi, UK

Before working with you I was confused. I had learned the skills well and would ace any paper test on how to use them, and yet I was struggling to implement them in my own life.  Somehow real life didn't seem to have room for using the skills.

I saw an aura of peace and calmness surrounding you. There is always an inner joy sparkling in your eyes and I just knew you had some good secrets to share. I wanted to taste for myself the joyful "princess" life you were living.

As I was being coached, I always felt deeply understood. It was like you stepped right into my life and were standing for me and with me in my struggles. You got it!

Private coaching helped me find the places I needed to shift my perspective and show up differently so I can feel different. It empowered me to step out of victim mode and step into a mode of making choices.

I would totally recommend to anyone facing challenges in their relationship to go for private coaching to sort through their feelings, their perspectives, and the story they are telling themselves. It is a real game changer, and worth every penny.

You have so much to offer and will be a powerful coach!

Chaya, NJ

My mindset wasn’t stable as far as my thinking and feelings.  Learning how to feel more than think is difficult for me.  The person that you are, and the fact that you are always evolving to greatness, and you love the work you do.  My experience was great and rewarding.  I gained a sense of peace since it was 1-on-1.  First and foremost, I was heard.  I have been to counseling before and this was something different.  To actually do something different in the way that I think.  What I’ve learned is to get more in tune with how I feel or what does it feel like, not so much as what I think.  So yes I strongly recommend it to others.

Willette, SC

Before I received coaching from Joy, I was on the fence in my relationship with my husband and my teenage son. I couldn't seem to rid myself of the criticizing, controlling, and disrespectful malware running deep inside me.  I decided to try coaching because I wanted to change; I just couldn't handle the negativity in these two relationships anymore. It was becoming more hostile and unbearable every day. Cold wars were becoming too frequent, and the bait from him that started the NET in me was becoming a daily affair.

Joy immediately hooked me up with a vision, complete with plentiful self-care and a feminine approach of seeking to BE with my family instead of to constantly progress my family.  Her coaching guided me so lovingly to relinquish control, accept, love, and respect my family just the way they are and to appreciate and be grateful for them in my life as well.

As a result of Joy's coaching, I am now more present with my husband and son and my whole family. I enjoy being with them. I relish and savor the time I have with them. There can be times when the negative starts to overwhelm me again, and it is usually when my self-care has been low, but because Joy helped me to acquire such a strong vision of what I want for my marriage and family, in addition to implementing the skills, I now know how to get back on track!

 I would highly recommend Joy's coaching for anyone who really aspires to add more love, appreciation, acceptance, and enjoyment into their marriage and family life!

 Rachel, 51, married 28 years, Jerusalem

I was recently divorced with a busy work schedule and seeing familiar patterns in my new romance.  I had met the man of my dreams and was already feeling him slip away.  I was personally struggling, depressed, and sad all the time.  I was alive and yet NOT present at all at work, at home, with friends or family.  I had no idea who I was anymore, or what I wanted.  I was a people-pleaser who did not know how to be or how to make myself happy.  

 I received so many benefits from Private Coaching, and I would 100% recommend it!  I learned so much about myself, connected with other women with similar struggles, and realized I wasn’t alone.  With empathy and compassion, each session built confidence within ME, and I learned how to make myself happy and put myself first.  This was just the confidence I needed to overcome the hurdles in the way of my self-growth and happiness.

I realized how EFFECTIVE this program is at bringing healing, peace, and self-confidence, resolving depression and anxiety.  It is LIFE CHANGING and really the best self-improvement program out there.

I loved the strength, confidence, commitment to your happiness and marriage, dignity.

and the vulnerability that you bring. The ‘self-care queen’ is so inspiring.

 Karly, dating 4 years, Canada